A. I often think I did something wrong and my partner is mad at me. I often worry my partner doesn’t love me and will leave me.
B. Being close to my partner feels comfortable. I know I can depend on them and don’t worry about abandonment.
C. I don’t often share my fears with my partner. Having to depend on my partner makes me feel uneasy, so it’s easier just to take care of things myself
D. A combination of the above
A. More reassurance and intimacy
B. Understanding better where my feelings come from
C. More space and autonomy
D. I find it odd that anyone can feel secure in a relationship.